ANDYSMANCLUB run peer-to-peer support groups for men over 18 going through storms in their lives. Clubs are free to attend with no registration required. To learn more about the organisation’s work and impact, we spoke with Sasha Massam, Partnerships Coordinator at ANDYSMANCLUB, who shared insight into how the groups provide a safe, non-judgemental space for men to talk openly, support one another, and take positive steps toward improving their mental wellbeing.
Can you tell us a little about Andy and the story behind ANDYSMANCLUB?
ANDYSMANCLUB takes its name from Andrew Roberts, a man who sadly took his own life aged 23 in early 2016. Andy’s family had no inkling that he was suffering or struggling to the extent that he would do this, and as a result Elaine Roberts and Luke Ambler, Andy’s Mum and Brother-in-Law, together they came up with the idea of ANDYSMANCLUB, a group where men aged 18 and above can speak openly about their mental health in a judgment-free, non-clinical environment.
How has Andy’s story been transformed into an initiative aimed at saving lives and supporting men?
Andy’s story is at the heart of everything we do. After Andy Roberts tragically lost his life, his family and friends were determined that his death would not be in vain. We recognised that Andy wasn’t alone in how he felt, and that too many men struggle in silence without a safe place to talk.
By sharing Andy’s story and using it as a catalyst for change, his legacy has become one of hope, connection, and prevention. What began as a response to personal loss has grown into a nationwide movement focused on breaking stigma, encouraging conversation, and ultimately saving lives by making sure men know they are not alone and that it really is okay to talk.
How does ANDYSMANCLUB differ from other mental health support services?
ANDYSMANCLUB focuses specifically on men and the unique challenges they face around mental health and wellbeing. Unlike some traditional mental health services, AMC is peer-led and informal, men don’t need a referral, there’s no judgement, and the sessions are designed to feel welcoming and accessible. The emphasis is on peer-to-peer support: men talking to men, sharing experiences, and creating community, which helps reduce stigma and encourages honest conversations.
What impact have you seen on men who attend the groups?
The impact is profound. Many men report that attending AMC is life-changing, it gives them a place to open up without fear, reduces feelings of isolation, and helps them develop coping strategies. Some men come after years of struggling in silence, and simply knowing there are others who understand what they’re going through can be incredibly powerful. Over time, attendees often become facilitators themselves, helping to extend the support to others in their communities.
How can men get involved, and how can people support the organisation?
Men can get involved by attending any of our Monday sessions face-to-face or online. No referral is needed; they can simply turn up and join the conversation. People can support ANDYSMANCLUB by spreading the word and taking part in our campaigns and events.
ANDYSMANCLUB is a community, Monday nights are just for men, but every event, campaign and conversation should include everyone. Every action helps us reach more men, reduce stigma, and save lives. #ITSOKAYTOTALK
To find out more, email info@andysmanclub.co.uk or head to www.andysmanclub.co.uk